We attract hearts by the qualities we display; we retain them by the qualities we possess."

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• "We attract hearts by the qualities we display; we retain them by the qualities we possess." 
  -- Jean Baptiste Antoine Suard, French journalist (1734-1817)
• "A mighty pain to love it is, and 'tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain." 
  -- Abraham Crowley
• "So much of what we know of love we learn at home." 
  -- unknown